What's left?

Unemployment forces you to take an honest inventory of yourself from all directions of your life. When concocting your career plan, first, you have to ask yourself the dreaded life question: ‘where the fuck do I want to be in the next 5 years?’ ‘What about the next 10?’

Housewife, as I am lovingly rewarded for turning a blind eye away from my husbands indiscretions with the likes of Choo, Cartier, Canyon Ranch, and a few of my own extra-circular activities.

Next it forces you to take an honest inventory of your skills and talents, and how your professional assets can be best applied for the good of the organization that you are applying.

I am great at sucking dick. I can make a moist and flavorful chicken. I am a bottomless pit of useless knowledge regarding sex, drugs, and alcohol. My boobs for their size defy gravity.

Having been a pupil of feminist liturgy for most of my life, from being the geek in high school who read the Feminist Mystique without being told, to attending a women’s college where we are taught that the white man is the source of all evil in the world, to most recently having written my thesis about women’s employment patterns, one could say that I should be a bit more optimistic about my professional fate. Or to be perfectly candid, perhaps you should be demanding censure for my depressing self-categorization that flagrantly objectifies me as this sexual object who is a great cook.

But for those who’ve been reading me for a while, you know I don’t shy away from the truth. Especially when the truth pertains to observations about me.

To be perfectly honest, that is not the most depressing part of unemployment, acknowledging that the only skills that separate me from all the other over-educated gen Y’s is being a whore or acting like someone’s mother.

No, the most depressing thing about unemployment is finding out just how much of a spoiled brat I truly am.

Let me give you a little lesson in economics that I’ve been learning first hand. The economy works on this concept of inflow and outflow. Inflow is the amount of capital that comes into an economy (in this case me) and outflow are your expenditures. When there is no inflow, it severely limits the outflow. For most people, in these tough economic times you cut your expenses and try to make sure that your inflow and outflow are roughly the same.

My problem is that even when operating on a barebones lifestyle, I am still roughly $2K in the hole every month. These, I consider, are my “fixed costs”. No matter what, I have to spend money on these items:

Rent + Utilities: $900

Student loan payments: $300

Health Insurance: $270

Food: $300 (estimate)

Now these expenses look legitimate. I need to eat. I need a roof over my head. I need to payback uncle sam, despite the fact that the US government is the biggest fucking fraud since they locked on my Stafford loans at 7.5% last year and will not allow me to consolidate the loans so I can take advantage of the lower interest payments—Fucking this is where our tax dollars are going, keeping the middle class enslaved in fucking debt. But, I digress. You could argue that my food bill is expensive but, I live in NYC where it is cheaper for me to eat out. No, seriously. If I would order off of the Mac D’s dollar menu and take advantage of Grey’s Papaya’s recession special I could lower my food costs by $ 250 per month but, I like having a waist line.

Which brings me to my “necessities”.

As part of my fixed costs I’ve also included strip class at $240/mo. Because I find the classes to be better than therapy for my self-esteem and channeling my inner ‘creature’ (their term not mine). I pay roughly $60/wk so I can learn how to take off my clothes and the proper method of grinding my ass into my man’s lap.

I also have as a fixed cost Boot Camp at $250/mo. Three times per week I am yelled at, forced to exercise in inclement weather (think the post office’s motto), and am so sore that it is difficult for me to sit down for weeks on end. But, I’m looking hot. Especially in the skimpy clothes for strip class.

Then there is the manicures, especially since I am interviewing for jobs. The shopping trips that help me perk up my fragile self-esteem. The skin products that promise me a youthful glow. And of course your author cannot take public transport after 11pm. I’d get mugged in my Judith Lieber snake skin shoes and alligator clutch!

For me the most depressing thing about being unemployed isn’t sitting on my (soon to be very shapely) ass day in and day out watching re-runs of law & order while simultaneously applying to jobs that never call me back, but it is realizing just how much of a spoiled brat I am. I claim to be all in tune with myself. I came back from Israel telling everyone how I found life outside the purchases of discounted designer handbags and Vueve Cliquot rose champagne. It’s bullshit.

I’m a vain motherfucker.

And I find my vanity increases as my prospects for employment decrease.

To be perfectly honest, I am so afraid of gaining weight and looking unattractive as I spend much of my time at home and away from routine, that I will do anything to make sure that I stay fit and get out and about.

If I don’t have a career, what else can I have going for me? These exercise classes, love of fresh organic food, pricey skin care lines are forms of insurance that I will have something going for me—my beauty. Because, the more time I spend at home, and the more time I spend wrapped up in this hell call job hunting, the less interesting I feel. I’m boring.

I don’t have money to go out all the time and star in my own stories.

So, this is an interesting question, and actually not far from my thesis topic. But I will pose it another time, when I am not falling asleep at the keyboard.

I’m heading out of town for a few days for a change of scenery besides my living room. Because, you know, that is the natural thought process…when you are broke, go on vacation!

I seriously am such a fucking spoiled brat.